I have to bring up a topic that has been around since before we all were born. People who are attracted to those who do not look like anyone in there own family or circle of friends.
It what is called “interracial” dating by those who seek after those who are not like themselves. But I am not one for calling people who are different than I am a different “race” for we all are ONE race. Human. To me it is something to divide humans and not form unity , another wall.
Dating someone to marry is good, and it does not matter who is more melenated than the other as long as they are equally yoked in faith and love and worship GOD and are saved.
Anything outside of a man and a woman, is not right with GOD.
Being a woman of color who is dark brown, I am have had my share of xenophobic people in my life time. Along with those who are ignorant and stereotypical towards those who are more melinated than they are. But as a percentage of those who are polite and never treat men as someone less than they are ….there are less than they have been in the past 10 years. I say this because what ever they are thinking they know better to keep it to themselves.
But what I see still see happening that I find annoying, is when white men who have fetishes for Black women who feel it is okay to assume she is in the grocery store buying groceries with her a Husband to approach her.
1 Corinthians 7:2
“Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”
King James Version (KJV)
No! It is not right to do this for any reason under any circumstances for it is adultery.
No! Being attracted to black women and seeking any kind of sex outside of marriage to her is insulting. For Black women are not there or anywhere to be used to entertain white men.
No!!! Buying a book on amazon is not going to tell you how to date Black women. Not all women think the same way, not all Black women think the same way, not all Black women have the same income, standard of living be it living as a Christian or a non believer. There are cultures and sub cultures within every color of skin. Not everyone has the same Mom and Dad….live in the same house, go the same schools and neighborhoods. There are so many variables in this that you will either get into trouble or wind up with an STD.
NO!!! Following a black woman around the store and you do not know her to pick is a no-no. You don’t know if she is married, you do not know her moral standards. She may ONLY be there to get groceries and any man she is with most likely be her HUSBAND,
Unless you are looking to get married to this Black woman, and do what is right by GODs law as to wait until after you are married to her to consummate the marriage, then leave her alone. And this will apply to any woman you are attracted to, don’t disrespect GOD and her. Marry her, treat her right and never ever cheat on her. Keep your union Holy and blessed.
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.”
King James Version (KJV)
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