1 Corinthians 7:2. Let every man have his OWN wife.



You when I see something that touches my heart I need to speak up and say what I am feeling.

And marriage is something that is sacred, gift from GOD along with the gift of sex for each other. For the man who is married to the woman and for the same woman for her husband.

Once we take these vows, we need to understand that they are said before GOD and not just the pastor , reverend . minister, priest or the justice of the peace in the court-house. It is a vow to your spouse right up before GOD. It is a vow to GOD first and foremost.

1 Corinthians 7:2

“Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”

I have seen many of lonely people who will knowingly see that the person they are with are married. Now if you don’t know, and they said that they were not married this is another thing. But if you do, leave them alone and move on. They are liars and will never leave their spouses for you, if they did not want to be with them they would not be.

The way how divorce papers can be written up these days, it could be printed up on something like #LegalZoom cheap. (GOOGLE-it) I am not recommending divorce at all, but for someone to really want to leave another there is no excuse to bring another person into your misery. Ever. If your spouse cheats on you, then it is up to you to stay or go, for they did break the vows. And that is something to think about when you know all of the sexually transmitted diseases out there being passed from person to person. This is nothing new…it is an old problem with new people.

When you are married to a person, you don’t expect them to cheat on you, the kids that are part of the union and to lie before GOD…let alone the person that they are involved with outside of your marriage. This person maybe under the understanding that this person they are involved with is single and will marry them.

I see it happen a lot, and with some women in where I do work see nothing wrong with that. They will have the man they call their boyfriend who is married to another woman take them on trips…..buy them flowers….take them out. All of the things they know that a lonely woman will need.

They may never marry his lonely soul. If they have been into fornication with each other, there is no need for him to feel obligated to him or her for he or she can always say to him or her you knew what you were getting into. Then what? If your faith is not in the LORD and into the secular things if the world you will not see just what hard and trouble you are in. You will not see anything wrong with it at all.

But it is wrong. If you feel that your spouse is cheating then they need to be confronted and get the situation solved one way or another. You can not go to any outside source like a friend, family or your Mom and Dad. Once you bring it out you may see that your ouside sources dont know what they were talking about. Well how could they? They are OUTSIDE of your household! If they do not have truthful evidence then they are causing nothing but evil trouble.


man and woman one flesh

It is not good to involve anyone in it from family. Your family is going to be on your side even if YOU are wrong to begin with because the spouse is the outsider. They can not see what is going on, and do not need to. This is between you and the LORD. Prayer heals, and if the one who is wrong can not see it, the LORD will show them lovingly and with patience. It could happen in a week or 20 years….but it will happen, they will see that cheating is wrong to bring into the relationship of marriage.

I have to say this, sex is not all there is to life as a Christian. Maybe to those who are secular with little or no faith it is. But when you love GOD you put Him first. People who are not Christians will assume we Christians and I mean all …..have the same desires and thought that they do with the leaning on their secular understanding. They will never believe in their minds that you do what they do, just hide it.

NO. We all do not. We are not perfect, but the things we hold fast and close to us are not the same! If your mind is on the LORD and seeking to get into heaven, and you love GD with all of your heart you do not seek after worldly things for you don’t need them. You need the LORD.

Do not let the ways of the world distract you from the path of righteousness ever. Yes we may slip and fall, but we know that JESUS is there to catch us when we fall so we can get back up and on the path of righteousness.

1 Corinthians 7:3-4

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

Marriage is a sacred way to live. Respect it, be it yours or another persons marriage. You will stay out of all kinds of evil trouble and will peace. This is why reading the word and asking GOD for understanding will keep you at a joyful state of mind that non believers just don’t get it. Here is some more scripture to read at this link.


Matthew 19:6

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.


Have a blessed day. May GOD give you a blessing as you have read this post and the scriptures , and links.