Are you holding a grudge? About?

I recall in Matthew 9:13-14. We are to forgive those who trespass against us so our FATHER GOD will forgive us.

I can get annoyed or angry with people when they do me wrong or my family or friends. But to have a grudge is a very serious thing that GOD doesn’t like.

The Bible says that people should not hold grudges, and that forgiveness is important:  

• James 5:9-12: “Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door”.
• James 1:20: “The anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God”.
• Psalm 37:8: “Cease from anger, and forsake wrath; do not fret—it only causes harm”.
• Proverbs 24:29: “Do not say, ‘I will do to him just as he has done to me; I will render to the man according to his work'”.
• Ephesians 4:32: “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other just as God and Christ also has forgiven you”.
• Leviticus 19:18: “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against anyone among your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord”.

Aside from the Bible as our guide tool for happiness, the secular way is simple too. Forgiveness can lead to improved mental health and healthier relationships. 

Don’t make stress, and you won’t have it. Be polite to all people, not just your close friends and family. 😀

So no, I get past my feelings and move on not to hold on to that anger as best as I can with JESUS helping me.

Have a blessed day ❤️