What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make? Why?

Being one of those independent women who left an adulterous marriage. I had to raise my kids as a single parent. I did have my mother to help me with GOD’S grace!

Having to do everything on my own, take my kids to school, help them with their homework, get my driver’s license, and pass the driver’s test on the first try. Then , I got a car for the first time, too.

Determined not to be bothered with another relationship, GOD saw another option. I had 3 jobs at one time. One per child. Only saw my kids when waking them up and putting them to bed for the most part on week days. The weekends, I tried to take them places for being good.

After a few years of my independence, being comfortable at going to church, taking care of the kids and my mom when she needed help too.

But then. Just when I had no interest, my current husband was pursuing me, and after a year, we married.

Funny thing. When you are not looking for a relationship , there seem to be many men around who will find you interesting. Wanting to start a relationship. But keeping my thoughts on GOD first is what saved me from the losers. This is why it is best to wait on GOD, and it will happen.

Being in warmer weather, there is a longer growing season for a garden. And you have more of a variety of food to grow what you like to eat!

See, from moving FROM the beautiful southern weather TO cold northern weather was not what I wanted. I enjoyed living in the warmer climate. BUT this was where the new husband lived.

My comfort zone was in the warmer weather because you were outside more. Eating fresh veggies more from your garden.

I was led to come here for now by GOD leading me. It is a test of faith. I am waiting for what else our beloved FATHER GOD will lead us to.

So for all of you single people. Focus on GOD first. He knows who your mate will be. You have to put GOD first and not seeking a mate first.

Praise and glory be to GOD.

Peace and blessings ❤️